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introduced ‘very many disturbing and complicating elements into nursery life’
(A. Freud and Burlingham, 1944, p. 590). ‘Jim’, for example, would burst into
tears every time his own nurse left the room. At 17 months he was clinging,
possessive and unwilling to be left alone for a minute by his nurse-mother, and
in her absence would frequently lie on the fl oor sobbing in despair (p. 592).
Moreover, the introduction of such artifi cial families raised the possibility of
further separations and losses, as certain staff members left the Nurseries due to
unforeseen circumstances. ‘Reggie’, at 2 years and 8 months, became lost and
desperate after the departure of the woman who had nursed him since the age of
5 months, and refused to look at her when she came to visit two weeks later. That
night, in bed, he sat up and said, ‘My very own Mary-Ann! But I don’t like her’
(1944, p. 596).
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© Anna Freud Centre, reproduced with permission
Anna Freud recognized that such powerful emotional reactions on the part of
children to their attachment fi gures was often used as an argument against family
arrangements in the nursery. But she argued powerfully for the benefi ts—indeed the
necessity—of such an arrangement:
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When choosing between the two evils of broken and interrupted attachments and an existence
of emotional barrenness, the latter is the more harmful solution because … it offers less
prospect for normal character development … In reality, it is not the absence of irrational
emotional attachments which helps a child to grow up normally, but the painful and often
disturbing process of learning how to deal with such emotions. (pp. 596, 594)
But it was not simply in relation to mothers that Anna Freud was aware of the
impact of broken attachments. While recognizing that the separation from fathers
did not have the same immediate impact on children, the absence of father-fi gures
in the residential nursery setting was even more striking than the absence of mother-
fi gures, and observations made at the time traced the impact of this absence on the
development of identifi cations, superego development and object relations among
the children in her care (Hellman, 1990, p. 27). Young children often maintained
powerful representations of their fathers, often based on the most fl eeting of
contacts. Tony, aged 4, would mention his absent father’s name continuously in
every conversation:
When he picked blackberries, fl owers, leaves, he wanted to keep them all safe for his father.
When a child fell down and cried, he would say (referring to an accident of his father’s): ‘My
daddy did not cry when he fell out of the army lorry, did he?’ When he saw a child run, he would
automatically say: ‘My daddy can run much faster’ … He would eat greens though he disliked
them, so as to ‘get strong like my daddy’ … Whatever deed of omnipotence the other children
ascribed to God, Tony ascribed to his father. (A. Freud and Burlingham, 1944, p. 644)
Anna Freud maintained an enormous correspondence with fathers serving overseas
and did everything she could to encourage them to maintain contact with their
children in the Nurseries (see Figure 7) and visit whenever it was possible (Young-
Bruehl, 1991, p. 250); but she also decided that male fi gures were vitally important in
the children’s lives, so she invited six young men—all conscientious objectors who
had refused to fi ght in the war—to come and work in the War Nurseries, undertaking
maintenance and gardening while also playing a role in the children’s lives.
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The importance of these arrangements—but also the lasting impact of the absent
father—could be seen in the case of ‘Martin’, who joined the Nurseries at 16 months
of age, having been separated from his mother at the age of 4 months and placed in
a very unsatisfactory foster-home (Hellman, 1990, p. 32). Martin was illegitimate
and had never known his natural father, but as he reached his fourth birthday he
became very fond of one of the male workers in the Nursery, who he would often
imitate. Martin would walk around wearing a cap or a helmet, speak in a deep voice
and refer to himself as ‘Big Bill’, a worker in the Nurseries who was immensely
powerful. Martin appeared to be using this man as a fi gure of identifi cation to help
consolidate his own masculine identity. However, it was noted that—unlike other
fatherless children in the Nurseries—Martin never made any reference to his real
father, or asked questions about him.
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One of these men, James Robertson, acted as the Chief Social Worker to the Nursery, and went on
in the post-war years to make a series of observational fi lms highlighting the impact of separation on
young children’s lives. These fi lms had a huge impact on public policy in the UK, especially regarding
the way hospitals and nurseries considered visiting rights for parents of children in hospital or in care.
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Figure 7
© Plan (formerly Foster Parents Plan), reproduced with permission
Anna Freud and her co-workers noted that, where children were growing up
without a father, they often created ‘fantasy’ fathers who in their imagination were
both fantastically good or terribly evil and violent. In Martin’s case, the elaboration
of such fantasies only became apparent when, after the war had ended, aged 9, he was
referred for psychoanalytic treatment at the Hampstead Child Therapy Clinic (now
the Anna Freud Centre), because of an eating disturbance, anti-social behaviour and
an inhibition in his learning which meant that he had hardly learned to read or write
(p. 50). Martin soon let his analyst know that he found it diffi cult to concentrate in
school because he was so preoccupied with his day-dreams: ‘there are so many, it
will take a whole year’, he told her. The profusion of fantasy material that Martin
went on to elaborate, much of it related to his absent father, was in striking contrast
to the lack of verbalized fantasy observed in his earlier childhood, which could only
now be understood as a reaction against the intensity and terrifying nature of these
thoughts.
In a series of fantasies about dead men, ghosts and corpses, Martin expressed
his feelings about his unknown father, as well as very primitive anxieties about
his mother’s sexuality. It emerged that Martin believed all the children in the War
Nursery had really been his brothers and sisters, but also that he himself was both his
mother’s husband and his own father, dramatizing in the sessions his own ‘pushing
and shoving to get out of the womb’—a womb which he had himself impregnated
(p. 46).
There isn’t space to give an account of the whole development of the father-
theme over the course of Martin’s analysis, or the way in which simultaneous