(Reciprocal love for
and with another
person.)
reciprocal feature in the intimacy experienced during this stage - giving
and receiving - especially between sexual or marital partners.
Isolation conversely means being and feeling excluded from the usual
life experiences of dating and mating and mutually loving
relationships. This logically is characterised by feelings of loneliness,
alienation, social withdrawal or non-participation.
Erikson also later correlated this stage with the Freudian Genitality
sexual stage, which illustrates the difficulty in equating Freudian
psychosexual theory precisely to Erikson's model. There is a
correlation but it is not an exact fit.
7. Generativity v
Stagnation
'To make be'
'To take care of'
(Unconditional, non-
reciprocating care of
one's children, or
other altruistic
outlets)
Generativity derives from the word generation, as in parents and
children, and specifically the unconditional giving that characterises
positive parental love and care for their offspring. Erikson
acknowledged that this stage also extends to other productive activities
- work and creativity for example - but given his focus on childhood
development, and probably the influence of Freudian theory, Erikson's
analysis of this stage was strongly oriented towards parenting.
Generativity potentially extends beyond one's own children, and also to
all future generations, which gives the model ultimately a very modern
globally responsible perspective.
Positive outcomes from this crisis stage depend on contributing
positively and unconditionally. We might also see this as an end of
self-interest. Having children is not a prerequisite for Generativity, just
as being a parent is no guarantee that Generativity will be achieved.
Caring for children is the common Generativity scenario, but success at
this stage actually depends on giving and caring - putting something
back into life, to the best of one's capabilities.
Stagnation is an extension of intimacy which turns inward in the form
of self-interest and self-absorption. It's the disposition that represents
feelings of selfishness, self-indulgence, greed, lack of interest in young
people and future generations, and the wider world.
Erikson later used the term 'Self-Absorption' instead of 'Stagnation' and
then seems to have settled in later work with the original 'Stagnation'.
Stagnation and/or Self-Absorption result from not having an outlet or
opportunity for contributing to the good or growth of children and
others, and potentially to the wider world.
8. Integrity v Despair
This is a review and closing stage. The previous stage is actually a
culmination of one's achievement and contribution to descendents, and
'To be, through
having been
To face not being'
(To be peaceful and
satisfied with one's
life and efforts, and to
be accepting that life
will end.)
potentially future generations everywhere.
Later Erikson dropped the word 'Ego' (from 'Ego Integrity') and
extended the whole term to 'Integrity v Disgust and Despair'. He also
continued to use the shorter form 'Integrity v Despair'.
Integrity means feeling at peace with oneself and the world. No regrets
or recriminations. The linking between the stages is perhaps clearer
here than anywhere: people are more likely to look back on their lives
positively and happily if they have left the world a better place than
they found it - in whatever way, to whatever extent. There lies Integrity
and acceptance.
Despair and/or 'Disgust' (i.e., rejective denial, or 'sour grapes' feeling
towards what life might have been) represent the opposite disposition:
feelings of wasted opportunities, regrets, wishing to be able to turn
back the clock and have a second chance.
This stage is a powerful lens through which to view one's life - even
before old age is reached.
To bring this idea to life look at the
'obituaries' exercise
.
Erikson had a profound interest in humanity and society's well-being in
general. This crisis stage highlights the issue very meaningfully.
Happily these days for many people it's often possible to put something
back, even in the depths of despair. When this happens people are
effectively rebuilding wreckage from the previous stage, which is fine.
erikson's basic psychosocial virtues or strengths
(positive outcomes)
The chart below identifies the 'basic psychosocial virtues' - and related
strengths - which result from successfully passing through each crisis. Erikson
described success as a 'favourable ratio' (between the two extremes) at each
crisis stage.
A basic virtue is not the result of simply achieving the positive extreme of
each crisis. Basic virtue is attained by a helpful balance, albeit towards the
'positive', between the two extremes. Helpfully balanced experience leads to
positive growth.